You are interacting with databases wrong. You shouldn't use ORMs even though they are the default for many instead of SQL. ORMs are bad and constrict you unnecessarily. You should prefer to use SQL and after this video you will. By using SQL you will supercharge the usability of your database. Although there are nice areas to use ORMs - like database migrations.

Also, sorry about my voice, I was a bit sick during recording :(